As we enter the age of Aquarius more and more people will sought out spiritual ways to getting supported. Learn how you can start your own spiritual business today.
As we enter the age of Aquarius, spiritual business are not only going to be needed more and more, they are going to be sought after more and more and supported more and more. There is however a limiting belief most spiritual people have. They believe that spiritual people cannot be prosperous and abundant – and that is absolutely not true! We didn’t come here to suffer! We can here to experience life and prosperity and abundance is our birthright. Without prosperity, how can we make the world a better place? How can we improve the lives of our loved ones? Our families? Our lives?
We didn’t come here to suffer. Suffering is making the mistake of identifying abundance with materiality. To become prosperous and abundant, you don’t have to become money hungry or greedy. You don’t have to simply identify yourself with the money and feel less about yourself when you don’t have money or greater about yourself when you have money. You don’t have to attach yourself to those numbers!
Having a spiritual business is all about making money, making a good living , becoming financially free and abundant while doing something not only that you love, not only that sets your soul on fire but also something that helps people heal their relationships and their lives. Something that gives back to the world, something that empowers, uplifts and fills a need for people. In that way, you are helping humanity as a whole. This is good karma.
This free course is just the bare bones – the warm up process. Laying the groundwork on how you can start your own spiritual relationship coaching business – opening yourself up to the idea and also preparing yourself to the practical steps to be financially free and independent in a way that makes you feel good and also helps the world feel good too. It is so important, and my goal for 2021.
The age of Aquarius is going to support these spiritual businesses. It is going too support the more feminine aspect of business. Capitalism and commerce, the way it works in the world right now has been very much masculine and a lot closer to the wounded masculine. That is why we have so many poor people and so few rich people. There is no balance in wealth distribution. The age of Aquarius is going to offer opportunities for spiritual people and for people who want to make the world a better place to really succeed. I want you to take advantage of this and try to think if this is something you would like to do? Would you like to embark on this new business venture? Do you want to make this world better? Do I want to learn something to monetise and give to the world? Do I want to live and prosperous and beautiful life and also help other people? There is no losing when you do that, right? Everybody wins!
So lets dive into the 5 steps you need to start your own spiritual relationship coaching business today.
- Do I have the right mindset ? If you believe you can’t do something, you really can’t.
There are two things that matter when you are running a business.You need the right skillset and the right mindset because both are equally important. The human mind is a very complex object. It is made up of the conscious and subconscious aspects. The conscious mind make up for only 10%.The more powerful part is the subconscious mind and that accounts for 90% of your entire mind.Isn’t that interesting? The conscious mind deals with logic and reasoning. It has a limited processing ability and it is essentially a gatekeeper. All information fed to it is going to be filtered and either rejected or accepted.It processes one to three events at a time.Impulses are processed at 120 to 140 miles per hour.The unconscious mind is where involuntary processes and functions take place.You breathe, not because you are consciously asking yourself to breathe, it happens.Sometimes you don’t even realise when you drive back from work without thinking because your unconscious mind knows the road.Your beliefs, emotions, memory, skills and behaviours are all set on a cellular level in your mind. Your unconscious mind can process thousands of different events at one time at impulses of 100,000 miles per hour.Everything that you know comes from this – the conscious mind and the unconscious mind. The conscious mind gathers things from your environment – the places you visit, the books you read, whatever you see, smell and touch and people around you.What about your subconscious mind?These memories are from 3 places:-
- Events from your past
2. Your imagination
3. Your thoughts about the future
Lets say if you dream to climb Mount Everest, that imagination is stored in your subconscious mind.The mind does not know the difference between something that has happened in real life in the past and something that is in your imagination. I am going to prove this to you. Let’s say you have a bad dream and you dream that you are going to fall off the cliff.Your mind does not know if it is real or imaginary.You experience the same emotions and feelings in your body for experiences, whether they are real or imaginary.You wake up scared or crying.Your heart starts beating fast.This is evidence that the mind doesn’t know the difference between what actually happened and what is imaginary.
We all have a false psychology of self.We believe we have a specific identity and characteristics define us and we can’t change. If you have never done business before, you are stuck to this identity.You feel you cannot change because you have this perception of yourself in your mind.A conflict is happening within you because your current self is different from your desired self.
This is where the identity crisis comes in.Conflict only arises when there is duality – when you are somewhere and there is somewhere else you want to be.Every time we try to become the desired itself we get out of alignment with the current self. Remember your current set is an illusion, something you have built up from stories of your past. This is not really you, and this is what people don’t understand.
Do you resonate with any of these statements?
- I am not cut out to be a coach.
- I can’t become rich.
- I have no skillset or qualifications.
- I am too old to start a new business.
- I am scared of investing in myself.
- The world is unfair.
If these statements resonate with you, you are stuck in the old view. You feel static and you feel your life is simply a summation your past experiences. And unfortunately, you accept that as your lifelong reality. You live a life paralysed and full of regret about who we could have been.You are constantly desiring to be someone else but think you can’t.
I am giving you two options now. Either you say this is who I am, I am born this way and I can’t change. I am going to deal with it and make the most of it. I am never going to have my own business.
Or you can accept the self does not exist. You need to let it go. It is an illusion you are clinging on to and have built your false identity around it based on your stories from the past. Let go of all your limiting beliefs.
If you change your mindset and create a positive hypothesis about yourself, you could change your life! What I am telling you is important information. Get rid of the victim mentality.
Just to explain what I mean, lets use the example of a coin.What happens when you flip a coin? It is either going to be a head or a tails.There is a 50/50 chance, a 0.5 probability that it is going to be a heads or a tails. Success of the outcome is static because a coin cannot influence which way it is going to land.The coin does not have a brain and it cannot think.The coin is independent of what the result is going to be and success is not in its hands. Now flipping a coin is the same as adhering to your fixed mindset. You feel the odds are against you and there is not much you can do. You feel stuck and you feel there is nothing much you can do.You are like the coin. That is why 9 out of 10 women never try to start their own business.
What if you have a new coin. A coin with a brain and arms to move itself? Imagine you flip this new interacting and thinking coin.This coin can influence its own outcome and skew the odds. However, what happens is this coin forgets its ability and humans are the same. We are new coins. We can alter our reality. We have hands and a brain, but like this coin, we forget our ability to think, interact, participate, and change our lives. We need to force ourselves to be this new coin.
What really matters is what you believe is true.If you believe you are capable, can achieve your dreams and can start your own business you will put in the work. It is as simple as that. If you believe and you work, it will become your reality. So the right mindset. That is the first and foremost!
2. Am I spiritual ? “We are not human beings having a spiritual experience; we are spiritual beings having a human experience.” – Pierre Teilhard de Chardin
What does it mean to be Spiritual Beings having a human experience and how does it relate to our everyday lives?Sit with this statement for a moment and it becomes self-evident.We are not human beings striving to be Spiritual; we are already Spiritual Beings. Meaning, we existed in spiritual form before we were born into this physical world. First and foremost, we are eternal Souls. In the very quiet moments of our busy lives, we can re-connect with this knowledge.As Spiritual Beings Having a Human Experience, How Should We Think About The Soul?
Our Soul, that part of us that observes quietly behind what we do, think, believe, and feel, existed before this human life and will continue to exist after our present physical life transitions.For each of us, our Soul is where unconditional love, unending forgivingness, compassion, harmony, peace, and joy reside. Our Soul is a little piece of the Divine, here to experience this life and its lessons. We are, indeed, Spiritual Beings having a human experience. Spiritual Beings having a human experience is a soul-centered approach to healing. So you don’t need to be spiritual to want to own a spiritual business – you are already inherently spiritual in nature. You simply haven’t honed your intuitive skills yet. As Spiritual Beings, it is important for us to appreciate the value of learning and growing at the “Soul level.” You soul always leads you to the most fulfilling life. Whether you’re religious, spiritual or not, this applies to everyone because everyone has a soul.
Most business models have people structure their daily lives where their spiritual practice and earning a living are generally two very separate things–there’s the working week, and then there’s the sabbath. For five (or maybe more if you’re an entrepreneur) days you focus on profit margins, then you hang up the “closed for business” sign and go to off to your house of worship to contemplate your personal spiritual beliefs. But like I mentioned, with the Aquarian age, business models are transforming. Your spiritual beliefs should come with you to work everyday and can make you happier, more productive, and more successful. Integrating your spiritual life and your working life “leads to more successful businesses and to greater satisfaction of customers and yourself.
Use the checklist below to see If you are “spiritual enough to have a spiritual business.”
- You like learning and growing. If you constantly want to grow and get better and help people at the same time, this is for you.
- You like helping people.Do you want to help others through your work? As spiritual entrepreneurs, we are driven by a desire to serve and uplift others. The Universe greatly supports your service energy and is always opening doors to that end.There are many ways we can be of service. Remember that the first service is the energy you bring.\
- There is an inner call. You hear an inner call, even if it doesn’t make sense to you logically You have a sense of knowing that this is what you have to do. When we hear a call, we know that no obstacle is insurmountable and we can trust that we are being guided and supported.
- Love wins fear. As a spiritual person and a spiritual entrepreneur it’s not that you don’t experience fear. In fact, there may be times when the voice of fear is very loud, because starting and running a business is a lot of responsibility. Following your dream is a gutsy move! The fearful voice of the ego will resist. Your ego wants to “protect” you by convincing you to play small and stay safe at any cost.But while fear might always be making noise, you know it’s not real. The passionate, wise and loving voice of your inner guide is what leads you. Y
- You think out of the box. What it means is that you need to check in with yourself and ask: Am I being authentic? Am I being bold and standing in my truth? Or am I holding myself back so that I don’t upset anyone or so that I don’t feel judged by others?As a spiritual entrepreneur it’s vital that you tap into your authentic self. Say what is real and meaningful for you, because your truth is what resonates with others. Having the courage to be authentic and vulnerable is what creates connections and movements. That’s how you attract the people who are looking for what you’re offering!
So if you are spiritual enough based on this checklist, then yes! Go for it!
3. Do I have relationship experience?
Relationships are certainly the most important part of our lives. They bring so much meaning and contentment to us and to those around us. We gain happiness from the positive relationships we have built in our lives and at the end of the day, those are all that would matter.
A lot of people think to be a relationship coach, you need to have a perfect relationship. That is absolutely not true ! How could someone whose not eaten a mango tell you the taste of a mango? To become a good relationship coach, you must have a good understanding of relationships, much from your own experience. We all at some point have been in a relationship before. So we all have some “ experience” with relationships. A lot of people have the misbelief that if they have had troubled relationships, they can’t become relationship coaches. A coach is usually 3 steps ahead of their clients, so remember you learn along the way with your clients. Relationship coaching clients are everywhere. Your hometown is packed with people wanting better relationships or needing help finding love.
However, having said that for you to want to have this as a career, you might need some of these skills.
1.Empathy
One of the most important skills a relationship coach should have is empathy. A good relationship coach must be able to feel her client’s pain. This is an essential life skill. Being empathetic is when you understand your client’s emotions and understand why they could be feeling the way they’re feeling.
2.Self – Awareness And Reflection
A good relationship coach gives people an insight into themselves thereby allowing them to see the cracks in the relationship. This helps people look at their problems more objectively and react better in situations of stress. Relationship coaches enable people to think freely from bias and prejudice thereby nurturing their relationships.
3.Art Of Forming Connections
A good relationship coach masters the art of forming connections with people and can help with many problems surrounding the relationship. The coach needs to emphasize the importance of strong relationships and a steady lifestyle to sustain them. In the process, they help you change many parameters about yourself including career focus, taking care of your health and leading an overall balanced lifestyle.
4. What are my thoughts about an online business?
I have worked from anywhere in the world – from a holiday retreat in Bali to a cruise ship in the middle of the Pacific Ocean! That’s the beauty of having an online business. I started this business to help people be happy in their lives and relationships and for me freedom to work from anywhere in the world means a lot. All of us want a comfortable live and security – but we also want to work to live, not live to work. Thanks to the internet, I can serve my clients from anywhere in the world, while living my life, and you can too! Virtual coaching is just as effective as face to face and with the current pandemic situation, it is the way to go. This not only makes your business portable, it also gives you access to clients all over the world literally! Lets look at the benefits in detail.
- Scaling prospects
Scaling any business is not easy, whether it is a brick-and-mortar location or an online business, but an online business has advantages. For instance, a brick-and-mortar store has a defined audience, typically a radius from the business location. An online business isn’t restricted by this and can market to a worldwide audience.Once a successful marketing and advertising strategy is identified an online business can simply open up its target and increase budget to grow very fast.
2. Provides freedom
Many entrepreneurs are drawn to online businesses because of the freedom they offer. Modern technology, laptops, tablets, business apps and communication systems are just some of the tools that allow businesses to be operated from any location. Not being tied to a particular location or desk from nine to five can be very empowering. Some entrepreneurs don’t know how to balance the freedom and fail miserably, while others use the freedom as motivation to work even harder. Don’t mistake freedom for time to slack off. True entrepreneurs respect the freedom and understand that the hard work is well worth the ability to spend more time with their families and partake in activities that most miss out on because they are part of the nine to five grind.
3. Low overhead and high margins
An online business will often allow you to eliminate some of the huge costs associated with an offline business. You can eliminate things such as pricey office or retail space and long-term lease commitments.
4. Access to a worldwide market
The beautiful thing about an online business is the ability to run it 24/7 without boundaries. There are no geographical boundaries and there are no specific hours of operation — an online business can produce revenue around the clock, even while you sleep.With a well thought-out social media plan, search-engine optimisation and paid media strategies, an online business can thrive. You have access to the entire world right at your fingertips. The luxury of being able to target specific states, regions and countries gives an upper hand to online-based businesses.
5. Are you ready ? Is this for you ? What is your WHY?
Find your why. One must know why they want to do something otherwise you may not really want it or most probably won’t achieve it and that is faulty from the start. The word why is the most compelling word of all because it possesses the quality that motivates people to think and wonder. Children ask why for everything. Why do you want to have a spiritual relationship coaching business? Is it possible to know the WHY? Yes, absolutely.
Ask yourself, why do I want a spiritual relationship coaching business? What would this do for me? This WHY becomes your compelling reason and motivates your growth and success .Your WHY for wanting a business should be aligned to your core values and it will ground you and give you clarity of vision.Why do we need to know our why? We can then take actions (how) and we can decide on the strategies. (what)
Deep inside of you, within the depths of your soul, you know what you are designed to do, or meant to be. Your intuition or sixth sense has a voice and feeling that speaks to you. We all have experience this feeling at one time or the other. Whether you call it your fate, destiny or purposes, it is inspired by your big WHY.
Each of us knows our calling. Notice it. It is the being aware that people simply don’t notice. Try the guided meditation mp4 attached to find your why.
Guided Meditation Script
Let’s identify your true self, hopes, dreams, wishes and ultimate goal or desired outcome.I want you to feel your burning desire to grasp it.What is it that you want most, something that you may not currently have, something you have that you want to make better in your life.Make it the very best.What does it look like, smell like, taste like, sound like, and feel like. As you focus quietly and intentionally on those things that you truly feel strongly about, things that have heartfelt meaning to you and you alone, and in this safe and sacred place, focus on your happiness, your joy and heartfelt meaning in your life – in all areas of your life.
Your physical self, body, spiritual self, personal qualities, traits, talents, unique gifts, wealth and financial goals, relationships and the quality of them, friends, family, parents, siblings, spouse and children. Focus on your career.Now is this the one you truly desire, is this your true calling and what gifts do you bring to your business? Think about your environment, your workplace, house and connections to nature – all that is part of you.Focus on how you have contributed to society and the benefits of your presence Identify your traits, passion and joy.What do you want for others and how you want others to know you.What is your legacy? How do you want to be remembered and in what light do you want people to see you in? If you could be anything, do anything and have anything, what would it be? Once you identify your desires, it is those that will anchor you to do whatever it takes to accomplish them and make them your burning desire, your compelling reason to actively and positively pursue your dreams.This is your time, your time of empowerment, reflection and the possession of all that you desire, your big WHY.
Reflection
Now reflect and embrace the essence of your thoughts. Keep your mind and heart open and look at why have you watched this webinar. What do you want to achieve from doing this work and what would this business mean for you? What do you want to achieve with this business? Please fill up the attached why pdf and write your why statement.
This statement will anchor your vision, goals and actions and it is a great tool to revert back to see if this is the right career choice for you. Remember your WHY makes you get out of bed daily and do what do do.