My story on how i stumbled upon my life calling..by chance.
In this blog I am going to teach you how I transitioned into a spiritual entrepreneur. You might be doing whatever right now – either a 9-5 job unsatisfying job. you are retired or a stay at home mum – this is a possible career choice for you.
Before I teach you how to embark on this journey, let me share my story with you.
I was trained as an accountant and worked as an auditor for a few years before I moved and settled down in Malaysia with my husband. When I moved here, he asked me to join him in his family business, which was in textiles trading. For me, at that time, it seemed more glamorous than auditing. Attending fashion shows and buying trips to Korea, China, and Italy seemed exciting.
I helped him in that for a few years, until the children came along. Then I got busy being a stay at home mum but something was missing in my life. On one of my trips to Italy, I saw a children’s clothing fair going on. I got an idea to start my own retail business – selling high end kids fashion in Malaysia.
I come from a business background. My dad was a businessman. My brother is a businessman. My grandfather is a businessman. We’ve always had business in our genes. My business did well. I expanded to three stores. The main reason I started this business was because I love dressing my children up. So I thought if I could do a business out of this, my children could wear all the beautiful clothes.
The business was a partnership with my husband. He invested in it, as I didn’t have my own money – how could I? Since I got married, he gave me an allowance. So technically the business wasn’t mine. The autonomy in the business wasn’t there. Every time I made a business decision, my husband would say something different and all this disturbed me.
One fine day, we had this big argument about some financial matters. I decided to quit.Yes, I simply quit. I stopped working and gave everything up. I just didn’t want to do anything. I was at the point in my life where I was restless. I wanted to do something that added value to my life, something that was my calling. I was simply unhappy. Nothing was giving me happiness. For the next six months, I did nothing besides attending PTA meetings, going for lunches with my friends, reading and dabbling into spirituality.
Spirituality is something that always intrigued me. I did a lot of free courses online. I enjoy studying and learning, so I kept myself busy. I didn’t have a lot of savings of my own. Everything I had was joint with my husband. I hated it every time he taunted me during an argument- “ I pay for your bills” or “You’re staying under my roof.” He usually apologised later, but this words stung me.
I did courses in NLP, angel card healing, reiki and tarot online. I really enjoyed the tarot. After learning the entire course, I decided practice it. But how? Was I qualified enough? Or intuitive enough?
I started doing free readings for friends, neighbours, relatives and whoever who wanted a free reading. I wanted more experience so I decided to go on free psychic groups on Facebook to test my skills. I was overwhelmed by people messaging me from all over the world.
I was happy, at least I had something to do. I didn’t charge – I didn’t know how to. I didn’t believe in my abilities. I didn’t believe anyone would pay me for a reading. People would thank me profusely and say my readings really resonated. I didn’t know where all those intuitive messages were coming from, but I was happy to be busy.
One fine day, one of the ladies I did a reading for asking for my PayPal account as she wanted to send me a donation. She really resonated with my reading and wanted to thank me for me by giving me a small donation. I did not have a PayPal account and I didn’t know what a PayPal account was. Yes. I was that stupid and unsavvy about finances. I googled it and set it up. She sent me a donation of USD15. I was overjoyed. I didn’t believe I could get paid. The last time I ever got paid was 15 years back as an auditor. When I worked with my husband I never got a pay check, only an allowance.
After 15 years having USD15 of my own was unbelievable. I still couldn’t believe that anyone would pay me. It felt surreal. I started jumping and shared my joy with my children. My children looked at me like I had gone bonkers. It was merely USD15. They didn’t understand these $15 was my hard earned money. I had never earned in a long time and those $15 meant so much to me.
I started having a bit more confidence and I started charging for my tarot readings. I started with USD20 per hour. I had people booking me by the hour and I got really busy until I couldn’t cope with the bookings I had. A friend asked me to increase my price and start charging a bit more. I increased my price to USD40. Guess what – I was still overbooked. It was crazy. Clients kept coming back for more readings. I kept getting new clients. I kept getting referrals. I kept getting clients from the free reading site. It was overwhelming.
I realised 2 things that one year. Firstly, most problems my clients had were relationship problems – boyfriend issues, infidelity or why they were still single! I realised bad relationships were the biggest problem in most people’s lives. Most peoples were bothered by their relationships. Of course, I had clients who were worried about their careers, finances, children or health, but 95% of the people who came for a reading were unhappy with their relationships.
Secondly tarot was good to predict the future but it could not solve the problems that my clients had. I couldn’t help them change things. I would have repeat customers who would come back but I couldn’t give them a solution.
I went around looking for a solution – a solution that worked! I dabbled into the Akashic Records. I did a deep research on that and I tried the modality on my regular clients and miraculously things started changing in their relationships.
What are the Akashic records? The Akashic records are a collection or a library of records which stores every soul’s information – everything that’s happening or happened in that soul. You could find out karmic patterns the soul has with others. It was very interesting work that provided deeper reasons why people had bad relationships.Of course on a physical level, they were unhappy, but the solutions could only be found on a deeper karmic level – that was the triggering point. A lot of the clients kept coming back because they wanted more work done and became long-term clients.
I started doing less tarot readings and more Akashic clearing work. I am not born psychic or intuitive so how was I doing all this work?
All of us have a bit of intuition, sixth sense and gut feeling and that is enough. Learning to access the Akashic records is a logical methodical process and anybody can do it. You don’t have to be born psychic or special. All you need to do is be curious about spirituality.
The more I worked with clients, the more I realised Akashic clearings were very effective. I could find out blocks in my clients relationships immediately and help them with that. I realised also that root of all problems is a relationship problem.
Imagine a day you had a fight with your husband before leaving for work. It will spoil your day. You would vent your anger on your colleagues, the children and even the cashier at the supermarket. I realised everyone has relationship issues. I started studying more about relationships and how I could support my clients in their journey.
The relationship coaching industry is a $350 million industry. And it’s growing in leaps and bounds. Everyone out there needs relationship help. Divorce rates are increasing. People are constantly busy and frustrated and their relationships are suffering the most.
Trust me – I have a lot of clients who make a lot of money but they can’t handle their relationships. I have clients whose relationships matter so much to them that even if they have no money, they would borrow to pay me for a clearing.
That is how my intuitive relationship coaching business started – it was a journey of trial and error. I started from charging $20 to $2000 for my client coaching package. I make over $300,000 a year from my relationship coaching business. It has been a journey of self discovery and growth. It was an impossible dream for me, honestly. I could not even believe I could earn $15 and now I make 20,000 times of that a year.
What hardships did I face while running my business? Yes I come from a family of traders and business people – it is in my blood. However, it wasn’t easy to set up a business from scratch. Running a business has many parts – from marketing to sales to infrastructure and many more. You need to learn how to handle every part of your business.
I knew how to access the Akashic records, I knew how to handle my clients relationships issues but entrepreneurship part of it was hard for me. I wasted a lot of time and money on Facebook ads and other marketing tools to get new clients. There was a lot of trial and error. I finally mastered a system of acquiring new clients, having repeat business from existing clients through marketing tools and exciting new offers. That entire process took me a long time to master/
I could keep all that knowledge to myself and continue with what I was doing or I could use the whole process and come up with a program to empower other women to become spiritual entrepreneurs. Women who were sick of their nine to five job that make them unhappy. Retired women or stay at home mothers who are feeling fulfilled in their lives.
I was at that point myself. I needed my own identity. I needed a career. I needed something to call my own. I had lost my financial independence many years ago. I had even lost the ability to believe that I could do it. I had no skills. I was an auditor many years ago, but in my forties, who would want me when they could employ 20 year olds. I had left the workforce a very long time ago that I didn’t even feel worthy.
Now I have created my own spiritual relationship coaching business and an entire program that can help women start their own business from scratch.
You have no skill. You have lost the ability to trust yourself. You do not think you can could earn even $10 at this point in my life. I was at that point. I was educated but I was at that point in my life where I had given up on myself. I was a busy mom. I was so busy doing things that were not be adding meaning to my life. This gave me a purpose and a meaning.
Running your own business is scary. Some days you would have sales and some days you wouldn’t but following a process is the way to move forward. Let me say this to you again – you don’t need to be spiritual, intuitive or even psychic to own a spiritual coaching business. Spirituality is something that is personal and within you. Intuition is something all of us have and that can be honed and using my systematic process you learn how to do this. The magical thing about what I teach is the intuitive part. This is the secret many people don’t know.
It’s a 10 week journey but I have people finishing this course in seven or eight weeks. It depends on you as it is a go at your own pace course. In 10 weeks, I guarantee you, if you follow the program, you will be skilled and qualified to help another woman with her relationship problem.
You would have learnt you skill. You would have learnt how to set up your online business and you would be qualified as a spiritual relationship coach. That is my personal guarantee.
This is my life’s work all set for you to learn in simply 10 weeks.It took me years to do this for myself. It was hard. It was a long difficult journey of discovering what people want, learning how to solve their problems, learning how to run a business and learning how to stay motivated as a coach every day.
Is it going to be easy to learn? Yes, because you have step-by-step modules on how to get things done. The best thing about this business is – it is fully online which is amazing. With the pandemic, it’s been two years now, my business has not been affected at all. In fact, it has gotten better. I’m based in Malaysia, but I have clients all over the world – the USA, UK, Australia and everywhere else. With an online presence, the whole world is your oyster.
So if you’re at this point in your life where you’re sick of your nine to five job or you have
nothing to do. Or you are simply sick and tired of being called Sally’s mom and John’s wife, you are craving your own identity. You want to do something, but you have lost the ability. You have left school many years ago and now you’re at the point in your life where you want to do something, acquire a new skill quickly at a minimum fee, this is exactly the thing for you.
What would it do for you? Firstly, it would do wonders for your ego and it would do wonders for you as a person. It would also help you establish something new. Most of all, you will be able to help other women who need your help because I alone can’t do it. This is another reason why I started this course. I was overworked. I was over bugged with people’s problems. Every woman have relationship issues. Every woman wants her relationship to work. No woman wants to give up on her marriage or relationship.
If you could help them feel better about their relationships and help them get a better relationship, imagine how good that would make you feel. This new opportunity doesn’t only give you a new skill and financial freedom but it also gives you that inner feeling of satisfaction. When clients send me messages telling me about how happy they are now, I feel like a million bucks. It gives me the deep sense of peace that I’m helping somebody feel better because relationships are the crux of life. If you are in a good, happy, healthy relationship, every part of your life starts to blossom.
So this is my story. And this is how I transformed my life and found a purpose.Step by step. I’ve told you the whole process – how I built it up. I’m offering this whole process to you on a platter.
I didn’t know how to do things. I did it the trial and error way. I found systems that didn’t work. I had many sleepless nights. I had many tears. You don’t have to go through that.
My course is going to equip you with the skills and tools to start your own spiritual coaching business and become a business owner in simply 10 weeks. I started my journey from nothing and so can you. Contact me today if you want to change your life.