Twin flames is a very interesting concept i truly believe in. Read more and see if you have met your twin flame..
The real truth about twin flames
I am sure many of you have heard about twin flames. This concept is very, very new age thought it existed in all cultures from the beginning of time. Hinduism had the Shiva & Shakti amalgamation, Plato from Greece had many quotes and theories on twin flames and even in Christianity and Islam, there in a believe in marriage and twin union. Only very recently , it has become very new age and overhyped.
Its become like a new religion and people have faith in it without doubting the connection thought there is a lack of evidence outside the channelling and telepathy of this concept.
I was totally baffled by this concept about nine years ago when I met my twin flame. The whole journey was enlightening and uplifting.
This blog will cover the following points:-
- The concept of a twin flame
- Differences between a twin flame, soul mate and karmic
- Signs you have met your twin flame
- Stages in a twin flame relationship
- False twin concept
- Core level problems twin flames face
- How can you help as an intuitive relationship coach
The concept of a twin flame
The basis of the twin flame concept is your soul isn’t whole. A twin flame relationship is when two people are perfect matches as a result of shared pain or another difficulty. The important part is in the dynamic between the two people. He is someone you meet and you just have this instant, crazy attraction and connection to. It’s just intense and usually follows a particular pattern. Union in such cases is hard or even impossible.
Now, the concept of a twin flame believes is this person and you are twin souls and got separated along the way along your evolution. You incarnate in the human form to actually gain different experiences and ideally when twin flames meet in this reincarnation, this is supposed to be their last lifetime. You reincarnate to finish all your karma and get united. How far is this concept true? It’s very baffling and scientifically there has been no proof.
Differences between a twin flame, soul mate and karmic
What is a karmic? A karmic is someone you share karma with. So it could be your husband, it could be the father of your kids, it could be a boyfriend who you owe something to and are paying back by being with him ( karma exchange ). Such unions are more functional, filled with a lot of pain but there sometimes seems no way out. For example, an ex husband. You have left him but because of the children, you still do need to interact with him.
A soulmate is someone you’ve had life experiences with in a few lifetimes, and the relationship is nice and pleasant and both of you are there to lift each other. Usually it’s your husband or your long term partner and these relationships are nice and pleasant, but they are not as intense or passionate as that of twin flames. Soulmates are more healing – they share your pain and help you in your journey of life.
Twin flame relationships are extremely passionate and loving. Have you ever met someone and just felt a deep sense of connection and belonging? Have you just simply been obsessed by him – everything about him. And the physical intimacy, that connection is simply surreal and magical. Well not just the pleasure, such relationships are very soon followed by separation and pain.
Signs that you have met your twin flame
You meet him and it is very magical but how do you really know he is your twin flame or just a soul mate or karmic? Here are a few signs you have actually encountered your twin flame.
1. They are your mirror and you both complement each other
Both of you will be like twins – similar work aptitude, skill set, likes and dislikes! What one lacks, the other makes up for it and thus together, its just MAGICAL!
2. The intense love and respect between each other
Twin flames have a divine expression of balance, harmony, and unconditional love. In other words, twin flame connections exist to aid the collective growth of our planet towards compassion, tranquility, and love.
3. The immediate bond and connection
They are on your mind 24/7 and their thoughts feel like an obsession. You actually feel their sadness or sorrow when apart.
4. Heightened intuition and psychic powers
Funnily enough, twin flames help you spiritually ascend. Most often unusual abilities and powers emerge after union.Every twin flame couple will have a higher purpose to achieve together, and this may include anything from raising conscious children and starting an eco-conscious business, to becoming spiritual guides and mentoring the lives of many. Such relationships exist to catalyse spiritual maturing and conscious expansion5. Feel each other when you are apart
5. Feeling of home
Time collapses. You feel like you have known them forever. Sometimes feels like a dream or unreal, Feelings of being home and complete.
6. Similar beliefs and values
Weirdly enough you may share some quirky coincidences in your lives. Also both of you might have similar outlook on life . Just feeling like being with the all the time – at the expense of your comfort and happiness. There is a total unconditional and complete love and acceptance of each other.So if you feel such a connection with your partner, it probably is a twin flame connection. That’s not all. Such connections
Stages of the twin flame relationship
The first phase is magical, which is called magical love. Oh that connection! The knowing. That fire in the chest. The electricity in the entire body. The eye contact that takes time and space into another dimension of infinite peace, love and beauty. I am home. They are so in love with each other. They are so wonderfully attracted to each other. There is intense passion. Even how they meet ( covered in the signs section) – the place and the date where they meet would be so significant. There is a lot of positive energy created when twin flames meet. Alas the honeymoon period is short lived.
Very soon after there will be a separation.Oh what? How on Earth is that even possible?! Insanity. Heart palpitations. Pain. Etheric presence. Magnetic pull. Relentless search for answers . Most usually twin flames have karmics -both of one of them will be married to different people. Or there will be life situations where their union is just difficult and daunting. Either they live in different countries or just have something that keeps them apart.
Then it will come the time of the ego fury. Not my twin, no way! Further Research. False twin for sure. Oh no, the matrix twin.Why am I the awake one?! Why am I the one having to do all the work?! Why am I the one feeling the pain whilst they are just fine without me?! Not fair. I want my control back.
You go through this phase where one or both parties become runners and chasers. Ego fury is followed by ego surrender. You give up on the relationship and just leave it to God. You know he will be back. And there are then moments of ego comeback, whereyou feel you havebeen waiting long enough now and what the hell is happening in your relationship. You want to give up. This pattern will repeat in your relationship where you both are just are so tired of struggling in this battle. You will decide to just let go and give up and actually try to move on, maybe get married. This is when you let go and lose faith. You feel the union is never gonna happen and you try to move on.
A few years later, 20 years later, you would actually have a blast from the past and meet this person again. All the demons from your past will come knocking on your door because there is a connection.
Only when you’re fully healed and ready – when you are not afraid any more and feel that nothing can break you is when you are full healed.. Feelings come, feelings flow, feelings go. Wow! You don’t need to hide them in the dark place. That will feel so amazing! Only when you’re fully healed and ready will reunion happen.
False Twin Concept
How do I differentiate between a false twin and a real twin.Your twin flame and your false twin flame will be very similar in a lot of ways. A false twin brings up issues of your past and will teach you how to help yourself become evolved. A true twin will instead teach you how to help others. A false twin’s commitment will fade when challenges arise in the relationship but your true twin will strengthen his resolve in face of challenges and never give up on you. Your false twin will make you anxious and jittery by his presence, you will constantly feel you might lose him but true twin will make you feel at home – safe and comfortable.Your relationship with a false twin will always be in limbo, you won’t really know where you stand with him but with a true twin, thought not easy the relationship will always be clear and you will have complete certainty.
False twins come to you at a time in your life when you need to be awakened. He will inspire you to do it alone. Your true twin will come when you need to ascend and this ascension will happen through your relationship with him. Awakenings are short lived but ascension is a life long process. A false twin will give you false hope. You’ll be surprised to find that they move onto other relationships quickly, or treat others as they treated you. A true twin flame relationship will be unprecedented – he won’t ever give up on you. A false twin shows you what you need to change to survive, while a true twin shows you what you need to do to thrive.
You will wonder why your false twin flame relationship is “happening to you” but with your true twin you will be certain of the purpose of your true twin flame relationship. Your false twin will use excuses like “timing” and “wanting to be young and free” to avoid being more committed to you but with a true twin, life situations don’t allow the union
Core Level Problems Twin Flames Face
As intuitive relationship coaches, we can really help them. Every client is totally different. How do you deal with clients stuck in two flame situations? Generally, these clients will have the following issues on a deeper level.
Soul promises are made to their twin flame. A soul promise is a promise we make to give them authority over us and allow them to draw on our Chi’energy through this negative agreement. Soul promises are negative choices and create separation from our inner true self. These promises are mostly past-life but can be present-life.A promise holds over lifetimes and can bind us to our twin flame without us knowing.
Soul contracts are negative agreements we have made with out twin flames.They serve as an attachment mechanism and thus result in twin flame and are mainly a past-life issue. Contracts with soul mates can be mutual or one-sided. Sometimes they start out as mutual but, over time, one side may release the contract while the other does not, resulting in a one-sided contract. Contracts are not created consciously. They are created in highly intense, often traumatic situations where one person decides to take responsibility for another – similar to a twin flame situation.
Attachments are one of the twin flame core problems. They are quite subtle and amount to a low-level energy theft. It happens mutually but unconsciously usually in an effort to “help” the other person. When we try take responsibility for our twin, we allow him to to draw on our Chi’nergy. We are often unaware of how intense this can be but we simply feel obsessed by the other person for no apparent reason.
Bindings are far more dangerous than attachments. They constitute attempts to manipulate and control another person’s thoughts and feelings.Bindings can cause us to be very preoccupied with our twin flame, to the point where they frequently intrude our thoughts. When we have an binding with our twin we allow that person to suck on our chi’nergy at any time.
We create curtailments when we surrender our free will to the will of our twin flame. In other words, we choose to let our free be limited by him. In such situations, we will buy into the perception that we don’t have a choice in the relationship situation and feel helpless.
Deals are agreements between twin flames engaging in an exchange for personal gain. Usually, either party must sacrifice for the perceived gain they desire. Deals are usually made for money, status, or power. For example, your twin flame might marry someone for money, giving up this true love for you.
Tapping into your intuition to find the right block in the particular situation is needed.The more you do this work the more you will develop your intuition, your experience and your ability to tackle different problems. You need to pause, listen, and tap in.
How can you help as a relationship coach?
From experience, these kind of relationships are very, very traumatic for my clients. They will usually approach me anywhere from stage two (separation) to stage seven ( ghosts from the past. Unions are not guaranteed in twin flame relationships.
As her relationship coach, you must understand the dynamics of the twin flame relationship – your client has met him for a purpose. Make her recognise that pain and separation are always going to be part of this relationship. You need to prepare her for this and explain how twin flame relationships work and ways your client can deal with the situation.
Once you have explained the dynamics to them, ask them not to hold on too much to the concept and be obsessed with the whole idea. It’s just a concept and if you hold onto much to it, you lose yourself in it. Help your clients be accepting and nonjudgmental and understand that separation is a part of their learning journey.
Such clients might need some extra sessions to dig deeper into past life connections to fully understanding why this situation has appeared in their lives.
Some mind boggling questions to ask your client :-
1.Are they both in weird relationship dynamics?
2. Is the union difficult?
3. Have they experienced any of the different twin flame stages in their relationship ?
4.Is there an unfathomable connection between them – something your client just doesn’t understand?
5.Does your client feel unsupported by the universe?